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The Setting(s):

1)Morning-side
  items: various at your choice (read on for ideas)

  Few things can be as sensuous as waking up to someone giving you 
gentle and intimate attention as you awaken.
For a lady kiss by the neck, ears, behind the knees, and between the 
breasts. Try not to immediately go after the nipples, stomach, or 
pelvis. Stimulate her and give her a nice reason to wake up.  Another 
technique is to place a slick material over your finger tips (face it 
guys, we just don't have soft hands) and gently touch her in small 
circles all over her body. It may not wake her up but when she does 
it will usually have her very hot.
For the gentleman, you might try a few options.
 If you are truly stealthy awaken someone with a rose. (Just be sure 
the thorns are all off!) Gently caress the face (specifically the
lips and nose) the neck, and the erogenous zones with the petals. When
they start to awaken go back to the lips and nose so they awaken to a
delightful scent in the morning.
 Breakfast in bed is always a treat, and a delicious way to wake up. 
For men it really does wake them up with a smile - food is the way to
their heart (not to mention other senses). It doesn't have to be toast
either. Strawberries/ Peaches with cream, grapes peeled with kindness,
melons cut up, or any other tasty treat can be very erotic. Trace out
erogenous spots on your partner's body and lick gently to have a great
taste to awaken. Take the fruit and gently caress the lips with it, the
flavors are a unique way to stimulate someone.

2)Evening-train
  items: warmed towels, oil, bath beads, powder, sheets you do not 
mind getting "dirty"
  You may have had a rough day, but your S/O may have had one infinately
worse. Too rare do I see a couple ask,"How was your day" and mean it in a
way that the other knows someone is really listening and hearing them.
A more seductive approach to this is,"Let me hear about your day after I
cool you down a bit." Suggest to your mate that they come into an appropriate
room, and help them get undressed. A lot of people stay stressed because
they stay in their work clothes- step one get rid of the day!
Once they are undressed have them lay down on the sheets you prepared, and
cover them with a towel. Feeling totally vulnerable and exposed after a
rough day can really drain stress, but in others it increases it ten fold.
So be kind and cover them up a bit.
Have your materials prepared: 1 bowl of hot water, soft soap, soft sponge,
1 bowl of hot water w/ a bottle of warmed oil, three towels, a bottle of
baby powder, 1 bowl of rinse water, and a set of hand towels. Gently wash
you partner first- take your time and make small gentle circles soaping
up a little at a time. Rinse off each area very tenderly and do your 
partner's body with loving percission. Next use the warmed oil and rub
out the tension of the day- a great massage to help the day away!
Wipe down your partner and then apply a gentle coating of baby powder.
I usually take 1-2 hours just on this and it actually it is also self
relaxing!

3)Lover's note
  items: 
  Saying I love you seems impossible to some, but this can make it easier
for you to start. Take a day off from work you know your S/O will have an
easy time getting out of work from too. Leave a polaroid (of you in a
really great outfit) or a note saying "come home for lunch." 

4)Long-day
  items:


5)Hide n find
  items:


6)A Cuddle in the Canoe
  items:
  A quiet way to spend the day is just to get a canoe row out a little way
and curl up for the afternoon. A picnics basket with some finger foods,
a nice beverage (not too much alcohol- you do not want to get nauseated)
and maybe a CD if there isn't a whole lot going on in nature's band that
particular day!

7)The hot night out (in)
  items:

8)Up in her hair
  items:baby breath and/or shampoo, wash basin, towel, etc.
  How many of us enjoy the quiet simple things of life. Sitting in a meadow
having someone there to share a beautiful scene, etc. How about doing
something quiet and beautiful? Get a small boutique of baby's breath and
have your lover put her head in your lap as she looks up at the clouds,
start to carefully put little white flowers in her hair. With patience and
a slow hand you will find it very erotic in its own right.
Not your cup of tea, or you are a die hard city person-- then try taking
your lover into a room with a wash basin and wash their hair for them.
With some gentle massage of the scalp you may find whole new windows opening
in their eyes!


Now wouldn't you enjoy these too???